The pressure can be on at the best of times.
Why add to that pressure unnecessarily by internalizing the goals of other’s?
Why not craft your own goals and go after them?
It’s up to ya to decide…
“Think for yourself to decide 1) what you want, 2) what is true, and 3) what you should do to achieve #1 in light of #2, and do that with humility and open-mindedness so that you consider the best thinking available to you.” (Dalio)
What do you want to go after + are you willing to chip away at it consistently?