Imagine falling in love with the difficult.
That is, loving the challenges that are a part of growth.
Check this out.
“To qualify for the label of authentic grit, it’s not enough to be resilient, persistent, and passionate. I believe that gritty behavior is a positive force only when it awes and inspires others to want to become better people and imagine greater possibilities for themselves. People who display it make us wonder: ‘What if I went after hard things, too? What if I devoted my energy and time to cultivating my passions? What if?” (Miller)
What you got going on that is a challenge?
How can you learn to love that even more?
How will it make you grow?